Just chilling in the tub with Minnie and her rubber duck, Eva brought M a new scrubbie for Bam Ma’s house.
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Stress? What Stress? There is no such thing as stress in my life!?!?
I write this title at 11:18pm on a Saturday night while everyone else in this house is sleeping. Including the dogs. Dan is in bed early due to a Steeler game tomorrow morning, and I’m hanging out waiting for the fire to die down. I will go to bed before this post is finished, but at least I will have it started. So if timing is off as you read it (like if the Steeler season is done), don’t be too confused. I just can’t stay awake much longer and I have a ton of stuff going on these days that this might drop from priority for a bit…
I failed. My goal with I started this blog was to blog once a week. Didn’t happen. I might have been close in the beginning, but this fall things went down hill. It’s not that I didn’t WANT to blog once a week, I just ran out of steam and other things had to come first.
I stress (like most females do outwardly, and most men internalize) about everything. From the small things … no I didn’t come up with an idea for dinner AGAIN until on my way home … to financial, to am I raising my daughter right? To am I doing my job to the best of my ability? Through all of this I take almost no time to myself. Unless you count perusing Facebook before I fall asleep most nights. To be honest I haven’t even had time for that the past few months, so sorry if I missed your birthday or wedding/food/vacation/kid/pet pics. 😦 September and October are two of Dan’s busiest months at work which leaves me to keep the house and M in order more than normal. In October, my busy time kicks in and I start bringing home work with me almost every night. Which entails being on the computer most nights for a few hours after M is in bed. The only reason I do that is to semi keep the stress down the following day at work. It stinks, but must be done…It’s self preservation.
With all this said, I deal. Sometimes by screaming and yelling, and sometimes by crying, and sometimes by just keeping moving.
I read my timehop this other day and one of my previous Facebook posts said “This week is one of the most exhausting and exhilarating weeks of the whole year for me at my job.” It’s true, and most days I wouldn’t change it, I would however some days wish I could clone myself both at home and at work, but don’t we all.
One of my favorite quotes lately was “You will never be done”, so true. So in the meantime, just keep smiling and try to breathe…take that time for yourself, get a massage, have a glass of wine…And don’t forget when it comes to your kiddos and life in general, take time and don’t blink.
Is Eva winning? Or is Abby? 12/1
But first, Let Eva take a Selfie…11/30
Elf on the Shelf 11/29
Eva was just hanging out on our counter eating Maddy’s Eat N Park Smiley cookie. Which Maddy yelled, “No, no E Bee!” when she found her. So much for not being bad. We quickly remedied that by saying that Eva would share her cookie with Maddy. When we got home from our downtown adventures today, Eva had eaten her half. Thankfully Dan took Maddy down to the car, while if finished gathering our bags and stuff on the way out the door and made that happen in the meantime. Finn and Hailey wer happy to help me accomplish this. 🙂
Here is today’s pic:
Eva the Elf
So, let’s just say I was torn. I really wanted to do the Elf on the Shelf and have the fun and wonder with M, but that elf just totally creeped me out. I refused to use that thing. So we improvised. I purchased an elf from TookensTale on Etsy, and we took the Elf on the Shelf book out from the library.
Dan actually suggested the name, and we have been prepping M on and off for a few weeks.
Dan and I made a calendar last week, with different ideas that we wanted to use. We are taking turns every other day to help Eva (or E Bee as M calls her) get to her new location.
We are trying very hard to not have Eva do bad things and as M grows older we will use her as a kindness elf and have her suggest to M to kind things for others. Right now she doesn’t get that as much, but we will still stay away from the more mischief things in the meantime.
“C”lue-Pinterest has tons and tons of links to different ideas. I have pinned some of my favorite to an Elf on the Shelf board. Check it out here
“L”ink-Want to buy your own adorable Elf on the Shelf? Check out TookensTale.
“T”houghts-So my goal is to post pics every day of Eva and her adventures. I will do my best to remember and to do on time. I might not have a full blog post every day, but I will try to post pics. Here is arrival day on 11/28/2014, just hanging out in her box (that I wrapped so I can reuse each year) on our tree (or as M calls it, Ho Ho’s tree):
Traveling with an almost 2 year old…
So traveling with kids is totally different at any stage, but the same too. Last week we took a trip to the beach via plane travel just the three of us, and here are a few things I found at this stage. Some were about me, some were about M and some were about my hubby. Hope these “C”lues, & “T”houghts will help other parents prepare before their next trip. I will try to throw a “L”ink in here as well…
-So what happens to your makeup during a trip??? I got up stupid early for the plane trip going and coming home. Both times I still took extra time to do hair and makeup and by the time I got to my destination I looked like a sweaty hot mess. I usually have makeup on at the end of a normal day, where does it go on the plane?!?!
-Dan and I have this balanced parenting down pretty well (except for one crazy trip to Target during the trip where we both were ready to ship her back to PA) and if one of us was frustrated, the other one does a pretty good job of having patience. It’s good for us, and good for her too.
-There isn’t much “mommy’ alone time on a trip with a 2 year old. I’m okay with that, just a fact, but something I forget sometimes. It’s true for Daddy time and M time too. M needs her alone time too. She still likes to parallel play and not really group play, so she enjoyed her beach time and digging in the sand by herself.
-On that note, everyone needs naps. M doesn’t sleep so well away from home so it took her until like the last day to sleep in the pack n play through the night. The other ones she ended up in bed with us in the middle of the night. Which meant she woke up earlier. Isn’t that what vacation is for anyway? Naps?
-You have a kid? Southwest is a great airline choice. The bag policy is needed because they have so much “stuff” and it’s great not having to pay for bags. The flight attendants were super nice to M and even though she lost her “wings” somehow on the way home, she still enjoyed the flights.
-Skip the nicer restaurants. Everyone will have a better time in a more relaxed environment. I don’t care if it’s on the beach, I don’t care if the food is high end, I just want to enjoy my meal. One of my favorite meals was at a place called BurgerFi. Check out the menu here. They are getting one where the train ride is in Ohio (See here for that post). Looking forward to getting some burgers before we go to the next ride. Fresh burgers, awesome fries, and giant onion rings. Nothing better.
-Never underestimate the kindness of strangers. Most people like kids and have patience with them. Especially other grandparents and parents. I can think of at least two great situations on this trip where I was worried that M was making too much noise and acting crazy. Both times, strangers reminded me she is a kid and most people understand that. I know that, but in the moment sometimes you forget.
-Nothing irritates me more than someone using a “Family Restroom” or the larger stall in the bathroom that has the changing table and is handicap accessible that doesn’t need it. A healthy 20 something year old male walked out of the family restroom that I had been waiting for a while in FLL. By himself and his luggage seemed to be his only handicap. I was not amused.
The most important things I found? Don’t forget to download the Disney Junior app before you go, a pack n play can be your best friend while trying to contain your kiddo in an environment that isn’t baby proof, and one good strong margarita makes everything better.
Happy Travels to all!
Another fun (but quiet) activity for the kiddos!
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I love quiet activities for M because she is ALWAYS on the go. This worked great for when we were eating out and waiting for our food to come. It’s nice and compact and fits easily in her bag. It’s great to practice M’s fine motor skills and can practice her counting and colors while “catching” the fish.
We had it with us last week while out for Dan’s birthday dinner. It was awesome! Kept her busy the whole time while we were waiting for the food and so I didn’t have to give her “snacks” before the meal came. She was then still hungry when it came time to eat and I actually got to eat a warm meal! What is better than that!?! I’m looking forward to having it for on the plane when we head to Florida later this month!
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Our Trip to Sesame Place
So we just got back from a long weekend to Sesame Place in Langhorne, PA which isn’t far from Philadelphia. Not going to do my usual “clues, tips, and thoughts” all broken out but will give you how we went about out trip and you can take what you like from it. You always learn a bit from each trip you take somewhere and get some ideas how you might change the next time! Prepare for a longer blog post!
Trip –
Day 1: Since it is about 6 hours away if we didn’t stop, this definitely isn’t a one day trip. Because of that, we decided to leave Friday morning and come back Monday morning after breakfast. She was good in the car and I created little prize bags for her for every hour on the trip. A board book, set of Sesame Street Characters, toys that I had gotten in kid’s meals…just little things. After checking into our hotel, we headed to the park to get the lay of the land, ride a few rides, grab some food and even caught one of the shows. Grab a map when you get in. Easy to miss, but ask at Guest Realtions if you can’t find them. There we almost no lines so M was able to ride almost all of the “dry” rides (there were a few down because they had just opened Monster Land this past week and still needed a few tweaks). After dinner and a show it was back to the hotel. On the way out we scoped out a shady spot over by the Count’s Splash to stake out when we came back to ride the water rides the next day.
Day 2: Maddy decided she wasn’t sleeping in the portable crib the hotel supplied the previous night so she woke us up early at 6:30 by getting two inches from our faces saying, “Mom!” “Dan!” (She sometimes calls him what should be Dad but sounds like “Dan”…they are pretty close. You can’t blame her!). We got up and ate our free breakfast provided by the hotel. They had everything from waffles to bacon to yogurt. All three of us were happy campers. We then got ready and headed to the park for opening at 10. We wanted to make sure we could park our stroller and stuff in a nice shady area for the day while we enjoyed the water stuff. The bad part? The Count’s Splash Castle was ICE COLD. Soooo…after riding a dry ride while we were still dry we went off to explore the other water stuff. We hung out at the park until about 2 and Maddy fell asleep on the way to the car. She was out enough for me to gently scoop her into the car seat. That night we headed to Iron Hill Brewery in Phoenixville to meet my college roommate and her family for dinner. Good food, good friends, and good beer. The trifecta!
Day 3: Ok, here is where I might change things next time and go…5 days with 2 full days in the park and one in the pool or somewhere an 18 month could just run. At this point she was a little short on sleep from getting up early (even though she was sleeping better in the pack n play that we switched to and put the hotel crib mattress in it to help cushion) and not taking full naps. She couldn’t touch a lot of stuff at the hotel, had to sit in a stroller a lot, and had been in a car seat for 7 hours on the way out. Too much being confined. With all that said she was still better behaved that 3rd day than some of the others we saw having full on melt downs…the beauty of going to a place full of kids under the age of 8. The other thing I might change is not going to the “special” show that Sesame Street had that weekend. M just isn’t familiar with Max and Ruby and she spent more time crawling on the bleachers than watching the show. We spent the 3rd day going on more “dry” rides and when M got sleepy we headed to the car. This time getting her into the car seat didn’t go as well. Instead of popping her in the seat we just chilled in the air-conditioned car and M fell asleep on me. It was a good rest for Dan and I as well. We had planned on eating out of the park that night and were going to try an Italian restaurant we saw. Again maybe not the best choice. Ended up being lots of adults enjoying a good quiet Italian meal. Next time we will head to Red Robin. We finished up the night watching the parade that she loved and “spending” her treat money on an Abby doll. Heading back to the hotel for a quick swim and bed. All in all it was a good trip, but it wasn’t Disney. But is anything? 🙂
Hotel-
There are a bunch of choices that you can stay at close to SP that are considered “preferred hotels”. I chose the Comfort Inn. Few positives…
-I’m a preferred member there so with that and the AAA discount it was cheap. $105 average a night.
-They provided breakfast. It was a little buffet but all of us were happy with it. One less thing to pay for and we ended up being three doors away so it was quick in the morning too.
-New outdoor heated pool. Very nice. Almost too warm for Dan but M and I loved it. Like bath water.
-We called before we booked because I had seen some reviews on the website about a shuttle. They confirmed it would run from Memorial Day to Labor Day. This however turned into a negative. They no longer do the shuttle and the person have us wrong info.
-It says on the website that they have entertainment for the kids Friday and Saturday mornings but when we were there it was Saturday and Sunday. Face painting and balloon animals. Nice touch.
-Fridge and microwave in the rooms. Fridge was nice. Microwave not really used.
-They gave us a sheet with stuff about the area, bottle of water, and a bag of chips. Nice touch.
-Staff was very nice and accommodating. Helped with anything we asked.
Now some negatives…
-Rooms seemed a little run down…chipping in the tub, hole in the couch, bathtub wouldn’t drain, rooms seemed high in humidity even though the ac was running. Rooms were also a little smaller than what I’m used to at a Comfort Inn
-The lack of shuttle.
-Area wasn’t the best. Besides a 7-11 and a weird Italian place, there wasn’t a lot right there.
As you can see the positives out weighed the negatives. I might look at a different hotel next time, but maybe just end up there anyway.
The park has both “Wet” and “Dry” attractions. A lot of people wore their bathing suits under their clothes. I’m not big on being squishy all day so we split it up but it’s possible.
“Dry” rides-Lots for M to ride even at her age. Dan and I were able to go on with her. There are 15 dry rides and she was able to go on 11. She even tried the bigger kid slides and was super proud of herself for going down!
“Wet” rides- Lots of baby pools and splash parks that the bigger kids and little ones can enjoy together. We went on the lazy river and they provide life jackets but it wasn’t so lazy. Be prepared for waterfalls, sprays and more! There were also a bunch of water slides but it was too cold and M was just a little too little to try them. Next time!
Shows-SP has 3 shows that are about 20 minutes long and feature the characters. M enjoyed those. She however did not enjoy their “special” show that they brought in for the weekend. I didn’t mind it because I knew the characters but if your kiddo doesn’t know them skip it. There is enough other stuff to do at the park. If your kids do like the theme of the show for the weekend jump online ahead of time and reserve. It doesn’t cost and you skip the line. Know that some of the shows are not indoors. In the shade but it was still warm. Especially when you pack people in. As for the parade (there is an afternoon and night), it was super cute! Don’t sit any further to the entrance than Abby’s surf shop. We sat closer to the firehouse and it was a great spot. The characters stop 3 times to do some dances. Take a towel, blanket or something to sit on.
Tickets-Because we were going to be there for 3 days we saved money by buying a season pass. You can look at all the ticket choices here or season pass info here. We just bought the lowest level of the season pass (Maddy was free because she was under 2). If we would have thought about it ahead of time I would have bought one of us the next level up (you can buy different members in your party different levels) because it would have saved us on parking. The middle season pass gives you free parking (would have saved us $17 a day but buy online before you go because benefits aren’t retro active!) and have saved us 30% on the dine with the characters if we had wanted to go. M isn’t too fond of the characters up close. She likes to wave and blow kisses from across the street. The lower pass did give us 30% off of food and merchandise. They have these waterproof wristbands that you can get and it loads your credit card on so when you buy stuff they just scan it. It would have been very convenient if we could load our season pass on too. But when you went to buy something to get the discount they still had to scan your pass. No use in getting a locker. We just took the minimum in valuables and were able to keep an eye on the stroller most things we did.
Food- It was amusement park food. Just okay. Nothing like Kennywood. No potato patch fries or fried Oreos. Eating is one of my favorite things at Kennywood. Can’t say that about SP. Every meal includes a drink which was kind of annoying for me. I would rather see it separate because I tend to share with Dan or M. The kids meals at half the size of the adult meals but not half he price because they come with a character plate and cup. Eh…not impressed. We didn’t try the ice cream but M did get an Elmo cupcake. I’m picky on my bake goods but this was pretty good. Also, they have a cup you can upgrade too for $2.99 with a meal. It’s then $.99 for the rest of the season for refills. Dan bought it separately for $7.99 before we knew you could upgrade. Still a good deal for us because Dan drinks a lot of Coke Zero.
All in all, it was a good trip! Will do it again!
Car Trip with an 18 Month Old…
So you have heard all the tips…drive when they should be napping, take lots to keep them busy…and so on and so on. We are heading out tomorrow for a 6 hour car trip (that’s if we don’t stop) with M. Her longest yet. Say some prayers!
In the meantime, here are some things we are planning…
“C”lue- Snack, iPad, little trinket for each hour if she is being good ( I wrapped them in brown paper sandwich bags…easy to wrap but still fun for her to open), her little people, books, and more! I bought one of those I Spy Bags (Look out next week for a giveaway!) and she loves looking for little things so hoping that will help too!
“L”ink- This website has some great ideas. We have the iPad holder (got it at Walmart) and love it! Click here.
“T”hought- Once M gets a little older, this is a great idea for the car. Keeps things contained! Click here.











