And I don’t ask for it nearly enough. I started this blog to give out clues and tips but sometimes I just need to write. Today is one of those times…
I’m not “Super Mom”…we all try to be, and for those of you women that aren’t moms try to be “Super Women”. Admit it. You try to do everything on your own, from work at the office to work at home to time with friends and family, but it’s not possible to get it all “done”. When we do try to get it all done something falls through the cracks. This past weekend one of my Aunts said to me, “Your facebook makes me tired! How do you do all that stuff with M on the weekends?”. The answer is I’m not sure.
At the beginning of the year Dan and I made a sort of bucket list for 2014. It wasn’t so much of stuff that we HAD to do, but wanted to do. We love going out and about with M on the weekends and when we don’t want to just run to Target and to dinner we look at our list and see what we can cross off. I don’t like to just sit. In fact I can’t. When we are watching TV, most of the times I’m multitasking by paying bills, making coupon/shopping list or running laundry. It drives Dan nuts. Especially when he has to pause in the middle of a show we are watching so I can run down and check the laundry.
I am so lucky that I have my parents and family around to help with M so much and Dan is awesome about helping at home, but sometimes you need that extra help. A few months back we started getting the house cleaned once a month. In my head I battled with it. Did we really need to spend the extra money? Why can’t I keep up with it myself? The truth? I just can’t and I would rather spend the time I do have with M and Dan. We have a little over 2 ½ precious hours with M every night and then about 1 ½ together before I fall asleep. Like I mentioned earlier I tend to spend our time together paying bills and doing laundry. I don’t want to spend our whole weekends cleaning the house. Yet it still makes me feel guilty and I won’t ever get that feeling to go away…except for that one time a month (like today for me!) when I go home and walk into an awesomely cleaned house all at once. 🙂
So if you are a “Super Mom” or “Super Woman” don’t hesitate to ask for help. As much as we would all like to, we can’t do it ALL by ourselves…just most of it!
And if you want your house awesomely cleaned, Call Mike at Bellotti Clieaning…Facebook page and contact info here.



